It is a new Year ... what are your resolutions?

What will it be this year? Be nicer ... tried it and it only lasted a couple of days. Weight loss ... tried it. Healthier .. tried it. Better with my money. Get more involved with the community. Take Roxy on a walk every day. Read more. Shop less. Be better at keeping in touch with friends. Take more time for myself and time for Gary and I. Be a good role model for my Granddaughters. At what point in our lives do we realize that we are no good to others if we don't take care of ourselves. I think I am a good person. I have spent the last 8 years trying to be everything to everyone and somehow someone is always disappointed. This year ... 2009 ... is going to be about me. My new year's resolution is to be Selfish. I need to figure out who am i? what do I want? I need to find myself again. If there was something you wanted out of me ... you missed your chance.